Post by Jessica on May 6, 2007 14:50:14 GMT -5
My first convo with Judy where I develop a bond which I hope to push more into a mother/daughter bond.
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spies3Judith (3:16:31 PM): Hello, Jessica!
spies3Jessica (3:16:32 PM): hi judy
spies3Judith (3:16:45 PM): How are you sweetie?
spies3Jessica (3:16:48 PM): Still a bit worried about my son
spies3Judith (3:17:23 PM): I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure he'll be fine! I'm worried myself about my poor cat Hermes!
spies3Judith (3:17:48 PM): Oh look! You have your Icon up.
spies3Judith (3:17:55 PM): My pesky bugger won't work!
spies3Jessica (3:17:54 PM): I hard quite a hard time getting mine too
spies3Jessica (3:18:00 PM): do you have paint?
spies3Judith (3:18:07 PM): May I ask how you got yours?
spies3Judith (3:18:10 PM): Yes, I do!
spies3Jessica (3:18:26 PM): I opened it in paint and saved it, but I changed the file type to jpg
spies3Judith (3:18:47 PM): Oh, jpg? That must be it! These blasted computers, it's all jibberish to me!
spies3Jessica (3:19:25 PM): haha. my son actually taught me how to use them. His school uses laptops so he knows quite a lot about them despite being 9
spies3Judith (3:19:56 PM): What a clever little boy, he is.
spies3Judith (3:20:00 PM): You must be very proud/
spies3Jessica (3:20:12 PM): If I can say I did one thing right in my life, it was how I raised my son
spies3Judith (3:20:42 PM): I'm sure that isn't the only thing you've done right. We all make mistakes dear, we all do..
spies3Judith (3:21:00 PM): I shouldn't have let my son go out that night.
spies3Jessica (3:21:05 PM): How insensitive of me. I completely forgot about the tragedy with your son. Are you alright having this conversation?
spies3Judith (3:21:25 PM): It's my fault he's dead Jessica! I killed my son! Oh the tragedy..
spies3Jessica (3:21:32 PM): I'm sure it wasn't your fault
spies3Judith (3:21:53 PM): No, no, it isn't insensitive of you. Hearing about your son brings a smile to my wrinkled face.
spies3Jessica (3:22:10 PM): wrinkled? You look very young for a woman of your age.
spies3Judith (3:22:27 PM): You're right, I can spend all night thinking about how it could have been prevented, but it will not bring back David.
spies3Judith (3:22:45 PM): Oh you lie! I am a woman of old age!!
spies3Judith (3:22:51 PM): I appreciate the compliment.
spies3Jessica (3:23:06 PM): My mother looked young for her age too before she started using drugs....
spies3Judith (3:23:43 PM): Ah! Those blasted drugs. Who creates them? Well, I must say, some drugs are good. My terrible case of osteoporosis really needs them!
spies3Judith (3:24:05 PM): Drugs will do things to you dear, they're satan in a capsule! That's what my husband, Bill, used to say.
spies3Judith (3:24:18 PM): Such a lovely man..
spies3Jessica (3:24:42 PM): It must be nice being in love. I only made a stupid mistake and moved away from my family for a guy I only knew a few months
spies3Judith (3:25:47 PM): Love is impulsive, sweetie. Some say love is crazy, and hell it is! Others say love is pure, which it can be. Love is hard to define, but, what you did is very natural! Love can make someone do crazy things, but it also brings happiness.
spies3Judith (3:26:00 PM): Happiness is the key to no wrinkles when you get to my age!!
spies3Jessica (3:26:35 PM): I am truly blessed to have someone as wise as you here for me in this dark situation.
spies3Judith (3:26:51 PM): Ah! My icon works! It's rather fuzzy.
spies3Judith (3:27:05 PM): I'll work on it later.
spies3Judith (3:27:17 PM): Oh, you charmer! Me, wise? I'll take it!
spies3Jessica (3:27:51 PM): Your advice truly does speak volumes
spies3Judith (3:28:26 PM): I'll say this, Jessica. You are, bar none, the most wise person in this Burg. You have had the most life experience. You have accepted your mistakes. You are attempting to correct them! That is, my dear, a wise person.
spies3Judith (3:29:07 PM): We may be 40 years different in age, but age is just a number! Wisdom, as you say, speaks volumes. We are not 40 years different in wisdom. We, my dear, are very close!
spies3Jessica (3:29:32 PM): Thank you so much. But I'm afraid I am quite stupid. I dont have my GED and I get so discouraged with school work
spies3Judith (3:30:16 PM): Do not say that! You are not unintelligent. Wisedom brings intelligence. You have wisedoms.
spies3Judith (3:30:31 PM): School does not teach you how to be wise. Life teaches you wisedom. You have lived life.
spies3Jessica (3:30:50 PM): I actually lied when I spoke earlier in the burg. I am not really that close to getting my GED. I have barely made any progress since I started and the work that is meant for 17 and 18 year olds seems so hard for me.
spies3Judith (3:31:19 PM): Why did you feel the need to lie, Jessica?
spies3Jessica (3:31:31 PM): I just feel so insecure about how stupid I am
spies3Judith (3:31:48 PM): Do not be ashamed! The ashamed are the meek.
spies3Jessica (3:31:58 PM): I feel like I can be so open with you
spies3Judith (3:32:23 PM): Well that's lovely dear! I just love to care for people, I'm here for you.
spies3Judith (3:32:41 PM): The loss of my son was a blow to my life, but it also opened up the oppurtunity to love those who need it.
spies3Jessica (3:33:11 PM): I guess tragedy can bring some good. Had I not been raped, I wouldn't have had my wonderful son.
spies3Judith (3:33:50 PM): There are positives and negatives to every experience. Some are unbalanced. Most are.
spies3Judith (3:34:15 PM): This why I say there is no excuse to be fully negative. There is a positive in everything.
spies3Judith (3:34:42 PM): The glass is not half empty, nor is it half full. It IS full to top! Overflowing!
spies3Jessica (3:34:55 PM): what a great analogy
spies3Judith (3:35:26 PM): Oh, you are charming again!
spies3Jessica (3:35:28 PM): But if I may ask you a favor, would you mind keeping my little secret about me having trouble with school
spies3Jessica (3:35:47 PM): I dont think I am quite ready to reveal that to some of the others who may be more judgemental
spies3Judith (3:35:56 PM): Oh of course sweetie. I don't break a promise!
spies3Jessica (3:35:56 PM): thank you
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spies3Judith (3:16:31 PM): Hello, Jessica!
spies3Jessica (3:16:32 PM): hi judy
spies3Judith (3:16:45 PM): How are you sweetie?
spies3Jessica (3:16:48 PM): Still a bit worried about my son
spies3Judith (3:17:23 PM): I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sure he'll be fine! I'm worried myself about my poor cat Hermes!
spies3Judith (3:17:48 PM): Oh look! You have your Icon up.
spies3Judith (3:17:55 PM): My pesky bugger won't work!
spies3Jessica (3:17:54 PM): I hard quite a hard time getting mine too
spies3Jessica (3:18:00 PM): do you have paint?
spies3Judith (3:18:07 PM): May I ask how you got yours?
spies3Judith (3:18:10 PM): Yes, I do!
spies3Jessica (3:18:26 PM): I opened it in paint and saved it, but I changed the file type to jpg
spies3Judith (3:18:47 PM): Oh, jpg? That must be it! These blasted computers, it's all jibberish to me!
spies3Jessica (3:19:25 PM): haha. my son actually taught me how to use them. His school uses laptops so he knows quite a lot about them despite being 9
spies3Judith (3:19:56 PM): What a clever little boy, he is.
spies3Judith (3:20:00 PM): You must be very proud/
spies3Jessica (3:20:12 PM): If I can say I did one thing right in my life, it was how I raised my son
spies3Judith (3:20:42 PM): I'm sure that isn't the only thing you've done right. We all make mistakes dear, we all do..
spies3Judith (3:21:00 PM): I shouldn't have let my son go out that night.
spies3Jessica (3:21:05 PM): How insensitive of me. I completely forgot about the tragedy with your son. Are you alright having this conversation?
spies3Judith (3:21:25 PM): It's my fault he's dead Jessica! I killed my son! Oh the tragedy..
spies3Jessica (3:21:32 PM): I'm sure it wasn't your fault
spies3Judith (3:21:53 PM): No, no, it isn't insensitive of you. Hearing about your son brings a smile to my wrinkled face.
spies3Jessica (3:22:10 PM): wrinkled? You look very young for a woman of your age.
spies3Judith (3:22:27 PM): You're right, I can spend all night thinking about how it could have been prevented, but it will not bring back David.
spies3Judith (3:22:45 PM): Oh you lie! I am a woman of old age!!
spies3Judith (3:22:51 PM): I appreciate the compliment.
spies3Jessica (3:23:06 PM): My mother looked young for her age too before she started using drugs....
spies3Judith (3:23:43 PM): Ah! Those blasted drugs. Who creates them? Well, I must say, some drugs are good. My terrible case of osteoporosis really needs them!
spies3Judith (3:24:05 PM): Drugs will do things to you dear, they're satan in a capsule! That's what my husband, Bill, used to say.
spies3Judith (3:24:18 PM): Such a lovely man..
spies3Jessica (3:24:42 PM): It must be nice being in love. I only made a stupid mistake and moved away from my family for a guy I only knew a few months
spies3Judith (3:25:47 PM): Love is impulsive, sweetie. Some say love is crazy, and hell it is! Others say love is pure, which it can be. Love is hard to define, but, what you did is very natural! Love can make someone do crazy things, but it also brings happiness.
spies3Judith (3:26:00 PM): Happiness is the key to no wrinkles when you get to my age!!
spies3Jessica (3:26:35 PM): I am truly blessed to have someone as wise as you here for me in this dark situation.
spies3Judith (3:26:51 PM): Ah! My icon works! It's rather fuzzy.
spies3Judith (3:27:05 PM): I'll work on it later.
spies3Judith (3:27:17 PM): Oh, you charmer! Me, wise? I'll take it!
spies3Jessica (3:27:51 PM): Your advice truly does speak volumes
spies3Judith (3:28:26 PM): I'll say this, Jessica. You are, bar none, the most wise person in this Burg. You have had the most life experience. You have accepted your mistakes. You are attempting to correct them! That is, my dear, a wise person.
spies3Judith (3:29:07 PM): We may be 40 years different in age, but age is just a number! Wisdom, as you say, speaks volumes. We are not 40 years different in wisdom. We, my dear, are very close!
spies3Jessica (3:29:32 PM): Thank you so much. But I'm afraid I am quite stupid. I dont have my GED and I get so discouraged with school work
spies3Judith (3:30:16 PM): Do not say that! You are not unintelligent. Wisedom brings intelligence. You have wisedoms.
spies3Judith (3:30:31 PM): School does not teach you how to be wise. Life teaches you wisedom. You have lived life.
spies3Jessica (3:30:50 PM): I actually lied when I spoke earlier in the burg. I am not really that close to getting my GED. I have barely made any progress since I started and the work that is meant for 17 and 18 year olds seems so hard for me.
spies3Judith (3:31:19 PM): Why did you feel the need to lie, Jessica?
spies3Jessica (3:31:31 PM): I just feel so insecure about how stupid I am
spies3Judith (3:31:48 PM): Do not be ashamed! The ashamed are the meek.
spies3Jessica (3:31:58 PM): I feel like I can be so open with you
spies3Judith (3:32:23 PM): Well that's lovely dear! I just love to care for people, I'm here for you.
spies3Judith (3:32:41 PM): The loss of my son was a blow to my life, but it also opened up the oppurtunity to love those who need it.
spies3Jessica (3:33:11 PM): I guess tragedy can bring some good. Had I not been raped, I wouldn't have had my wonderful son.
spies3Judith (3:33:50 PM): There are positives and negatives to every experience. Some are unbalanced. Most are.
spies3Judith (3:34:15 PM): This why I say there is no excuse to be fully negative. There is a positive in everything.
spies3Judith (3:34:42 PM): The glass is not half empty, nor is it half full. It IS full to top! Overflowing!
spies3Jessica (3:34:55 PM): what a great analogy
spies3Judith (3:35:26 PM): Oh, you are charming again!
spies3Jessica (3:35:28 PM): But if I may ask you a favor, would you mind keeping my little secret about me having trouble with school
spies3Jessica (3:35:47 PM): I dont think I am quite ready to reveal that to some of the others who may be more judgemental
spies3Judith (3:35:56 PM): Oh of course sweetie. I don't break a promise!
spies3Jessica (3:35:56 PM): thank you
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